R.I.P. Born Reality

Ya’ll know how much I love Brooklyn, and how I stay in the neighborhood I grew up in, Crown Heights. Some of ya’ll might have also seen how my home was featured on that HGTV show. Crown Heights is on the come up, gentrification is in full swing. Shit is looking sweet ’round here.

In reality, I still dunno yet how I feel about all this new excitement. I see cops standing on every corner now, but it’s bittersweet. Only because I know deep down inside that they’re not there to serve and protect me and mines. More like they’re there to serve and protect the neighborhoods new residents. Like the woman who brought the building three doors down from me, for like a million dollars, or my new tenant, a sweet white girl from Iowa, and whose first time it is living in the big city. She always makes it a point to tell me, when I see her, how “awesome” Brooklyn is. How it’s so not like anything she’s seen or read about in the news, because of how it’s so safe. How it’s so sweet.

Last Wednesday, my wife took my daughter to Nairobi’s Knapsack, this new toy store/ play shop/ cultural studio located on Franklin Avenue. Baby girl loves it there. At the same time, and in broad daylight, some shit popped off up the block and across the street, no more than 100 yards away. On the corner of Franklin Avenue and Lincoln Place. Shots rang out, running, ducking, yelling, blood shed. After the nines stopped screaming, there was  a body on the ground. Ronald Alexander Robert Lee Glover II was his name. I don’t know Robert, don’t know anything about him, I tried to look it up in the news, but unfortunately there was nada. Boy’s life wasn’t newsworthy enough for prime time.

Wife was understandably shaken. She was there, tells me she even saw Robert’s blood, freshly spilt, on the concrete. Sunday afternoon, I ran out on an errand, had to pick up some seltzer water, juice, paper cups and plates as my mother-in-law and her sister were over for an impromptu Sunday dinner. They opened a new health food store on Franklin, where I could cop some natural juice, free from that poisonous high fructose corn syrup ingredient that I’m most certain Robert  used to drink. That’s when I noticed the vigil. I copped my all natural Looza mango nectar, with the seltzer water, put in the whip, pulled out the blackberry and started snapping pics from my uber cheap camera.

There were still mad cops out, serving & protecting. There were also a small group of people manning the vigil, keeping the candles lit.  It soon became obvious that the group were family and or friends of Robert. All of them Black, a young woman, in her 20′s, how deep the hood ran in her blood, as betrayed by her dress, sneakers, jeans, head wrapped, and a face that told stories of a harsh life from day one. Crazy how any woman’s face tells their story better than a man’s. She was on the cell, cussing someone out for not coming out in person to share their condolences with her, her voice hoarse, maybe from the mourning, or her hard life, or both. Two brothers stood nearby, one mumbling, even within earshot of the po po, of how he had had enough of this shit, and how he was ready to “run upstairs, grab that, and to start clapping on them faggots”.  The other dude telling both of them to chill out, he calmly taking the lighter that he just used to light his Newport to re-light the small candle that had been blown own by the wind. All of them together painting a universal portrait of loved ones after a death. Emotions raw, eyes stunned as to the preciousness that is life.

As I snapped, I learned two things about Robert. That he was gang affiliated, as evidenced by the red shirt that draped the light pole’s power box. The shirt was signed like a cast, with names “Born Reality” and “G-Shine” spelled out. Maybe Robert was Born Reality. Remnants of how niggas ran with them names from the ’80′s, a lost by product of the Five Percent Nation.  And how the Bloods have long replaced the Gods. Secondly, that the crew that stood by his site loved Robert, missed Robert, wanted to turn back the hands of time so that Robert was still alive. I felt kind a ways, taking pics while their drama was unfolding. Like I was some new buppie resident studying their pain like it was on National Geographic. I stopped, hopped in the whip, and resumed dinner with my peoples.

Dunno why I felt compelled to drop this. Like I said, I didn’t know Robert. I guess maybe because, whoever he was, his life wasn’t good enough to be documented on our local news. You won’t find a god damned thing about him on Google. Well, maybe now. Last month, I had been stopped by police while driving home with a car full of kids. Undercovers. They saw my car filled with children, but still kept they flashlights flashing, in my baby boy’s face, still took my license to run it. When I came up clean, they informed me that a black jeep was driving around in the neighborhood, “terrorizing” citizens. No biggie, I bounced. I knew what time it was, made sure my sons knew too. Police was just doing their job. Protecting and serving. The new residents. The ones that were deemed to be valuable citizens in the community. Like my new tenant. At least I can lay my head down at night knowing I’ll stay getting a rent check from her, as long as she’s here, because her life is way more valuable than Robert’s.

About Combat Jack

Attorney, author and radio personality Reggie Ossé is an established authority in all things urban entertainment. He is considered the first in today’s new wave of savvy attorneys well versed and nurtured in Urban, Hip Hop and Popular culture. He is the author of “Bling, The Hip Hop Jewelry Book”, a cultural anthropology coffee table book which provides an in depth and entertaining study of man’s fascination with jewelry spanning back to the birth of civilization.

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  • http://www.scritchandscratch.com/blog VEe

    Rest in Peace.
    Good piece. Some times people can be disaffected by the death of a random brother that it bothers me a bit. Who knows if his death got some headlines, he would have become another punchline for 16 bars, like that’s really cool or something.

    Hopefully Ronald Glover and his family will find some peace.

    Honestly I don’t know how I would react to the police stopping me and asking for my license with my kid in my car. I really want to see some nut “terrorizing” the neighborhood with children in tow. Did he say that with a straight face? I guess it is not a biggie, but some times it is. I know, I know.

  • http://www.moetmedusa.blogspot.com LibraSpeak

    Dope as always CJ. May he rest in protection!

  • BKThoroughbred

    “The ones that were deemed to be valuable citizens in the community. Like my new tenant. At least I can lay my head down at night knowing I’ll stay getting a rent check from her, as long as she’s here, because her life is way more valuable than Robert’s.”

    ^
    I was just saying this morning; that at this pace the hood as we know it will be gone in less than 10 years. I’m not sure how I feel about this. On the negative side: White folks bring police protection and higher prices and bad attitudes (as soon as enough of them come). But on the plus side they bring police protection (we need protecting too), and better goods and services.

    I was driving through Franklin and Fulton, and no lie: For every 10 people at least 2-3 of them was White. Because of the real estate boom of a few years ago many of them were displaced because of prices. So they started inching into the hood. Now that things have calmed down in the real estate market they’re still coming in droves, because the cat’s out the bag: BROOKLYN IS POPPIN’. It’s got realtively cheap rent (they think it’s cheap- not us), artistic and creative energy, enumerable cultural and dining choices, architectural gems, and it’s even got cache from our not so distant “criminal” past.

    As time goes on the “Born Realities” and the “G-Shines” will give way to the Becky’s, etc. That’s why I have a problem with anyone promoting strictly bullshit to our babies. I’m born and raised in BK, and you’ll definetly learn to “stand strong, handle your business and take no shorts”. BUT this gratutitous-hedonistic street life has got to go the way of the dodo bird. What has it got us: Jail, Death, Disease. How are we going to partake in all the greatness and possibility that is just as much ours as anyone?

    This shit is ours too, but we got to move with and covet intelligence.

  • Baphmet

    Where you live sounds like a police state.

  • PorkChopFace

    I choose to forget the number of times cops have stopped me, whether walkin or driving. Off the top,I once was stopped by police while walkin, while wearing white jeans and a white jacket and with a straight face the policeman accuse me of crawling through an old auto factory window and stealin shit. When I asked him how I was able to crawl through a dirty factory window, yet still remain impeccably clean, I was stripped search for my inquiry and promptly profiled.

    They profiled/databased you. That’s what they do now. Stop you, verify who you are, where you live, put you on a neighborhood safe list. Since they have absolutely no wisdom as to the damage caused by these tactics, You can be certain their will be a rinse/repeat cycle as the hood gets infused with more white people.

  • http://whowalkinbrooklyn.com Willis Still Sunsweet, WWIB

    RIP Born Reality.

    BKThoroughbred– re: I dunno, while gentrification creeps (rushes some spots) into central Brooklyn, it seems the ‘hood is getting even more ‘hood elsewhere, although thankfully not as wild as it was in the 1980s. Think of Brownsville, New Lots, East New York, Canarsie– things also change there, of course, but except for something like that strip mall out by Starrett City it’s not white that’s doing the changing. Canarsie is the new Flatbush, Bangladeshis are holding down City Line etc etc.

    Of course Fort Greene, Prospect Heights, Crown Heights, parts of Bed-Stuy, a little bit of Bushwick (but nowhere near as much as the fucking Times real estate section wants white to believe) have changed, often A LOT, likewise parts og Gowanus that used to be nearly all Spanish. Now there’s hardly anyone playing dominos or blasting salsa.

    Anyway, not contradicting you but just adding an all-BK perspective, which complicates things, as I’m sure you know. Even talking Crown Heights, I’m up and down Utica a bit and I never, ever see white there unless a cop, firemen, bus or truck driver etc.

    re: “Born Reality,” I dunno if ya’ll have read this already but “Street Kingdom: Five Years Inside The Franklin Avenue Posse” is still an interesting book–

    http://www.amazon.com/Street-Kingdom-Inside-Franklin-Avenue/dp/044652266X

    Buckshot makes a cameo, and maybe more folks some of ya’ll know.

    Sidenote: the internet and cell phones have A LOT to do with gentrification. Granted times change too but imagine Becky getting off the A train 15 years, alone. It might or might not be more dangerous but she probably doesn’t know anyone, let alone the ‘hood. Now even the three most asinine white yuppies can start a website demanding ‘the services are property values demand’ (but they won’t quit their jobs and rent out the space where the .99 cent store, Guyanese take-out joint, laundromat or African store, or botanica currently is.)

  • Baphmet

    Yall niggas need to move

  • cracka ass cracka

    i think once you take race out as an issue, the problem with cops may finally be addressed. i am one of them whites who happen to live in one of the most dangerous parts of toronto (at least according to our newspaper), and a home owner in that neighbourhood as i hustled my ass off to get that shit. i get harassed by cops on the daily, i’ve had cops stop me in the parking lot of my building and made me produce id, i’ve had cops stop me while walking from the store (30 seconds away) to my frontdoor, and had to produce ID and be searched. these are not rare occurrences for me, and as noted above, i am one of them ‘white people’.

    the real problem is cops are just thugs with badges. they’re legitimized gangsters who run their area/hood just like any other thug would, controlling their area. they instill fear in those they see as threats, regardless of race. now don’t get me wrong, i know racial profiling exists, but to suggest that that is the be-all-end-all modus operandi of all cops is just plain ignorant. they, like thugs, pray on what they perceive as the weak, so that they might exploit them, regardless of race.

  • gabriel tolliver

    CJ-good piece – sometimes the killing/death is all the same like “groundshog day”-just a different time/space-sorry the fam had to see that up close and personal. If the sidewalks could talk of how many have been laid to waste atop of them…the settlers will continue to settle and the demo will shift…the hood will move somewhere else like epic migrations of eons past…you are a historian, an interpreter, a documentarian. Thank you.
    peace from A-STAN.

  • Theotis Jones

    @gabriel

    It’s been a while since we’ve gotten an update on you – good to hear you are still able to check the Math! Be easy!

  • Shawn Rosvold

    It’s nice to read your take on such a common incident. It’s sad that a young life has to end because of some sort of turf BS. I’m sorry it took white people moving into your neighborhood to boost police presence. I’m sure it was like that with all the past waves of gentrification in New York City’s history. I’m hopeful the change in races, nationalities, the different colors of faces will not always mean such upheaval for so many people. But probably not. In the meantime, as a white homeowner in Crown Heights, I’m happy to be here. To me, it’s never about race. It’s always about the economics. We bought in a neighborhood that we could afford. We have a wonderful tenant who happens to be black. We know our neighbors, we shop here most of the time, and we try to support local business. I’m not happy you were stopped, but I would rather the cops do that than not. By the way, did anybody ever come forward with any information for the police? I sure hope so, because this don’t snitch attitude is the worst thing about these incidents.

  • http://www.clintonhillchill.com clintonhillchill

    “I’m sure it was like that with all the past waves of gentrification in New York City’s history.”

    What was you purpose for this comment when you said it sucks that it took an influx of white ppl to up the police presence in an area that has been plagued with crime for years?! NYC has NEVER seen a wave of gentrication at the pace we have experienced in the past 9 years. What we did see in previous generations was White Fight!

    Also, I wish people would stop acting like Black ppl have the market cornered when it’s comes to not snitching. Ozone Park(once home to the Gotti’s where a neighbor just happened to go missing after accidently hitting one of Gotti’s kids), Chinatown, Bayridge and plenty other neighborhoods with people of different ethinicities also abide by these unwritten codes. Maybe, if it didn’t take white people moving in for the police to do their job of serving and protecting the majority of law abiding citizens in hoods like Crown Heights, the distrust of police would wane a bit.

    For the record, the “No snitching” is grossly over-exxagerated, police wouldn’t be able to solve most of their cases without snitches or informants(watch the First 48 sometimes). And there were always ppl in these neighborhoods who wanted to void the criminal element. Just listen to the great B.I.G for an example:

    “…to all the people that lived above the
    buildings that I was hustlin’ in front of that called the police on
    me when I was just tryin’ to make some money to feed my daughters…”

  • Another neighborhood white guy

    I’ve been paying more attention to the neighborhood gunfire since I read this post a couple weeks ago. Heard another one about an hour ago a couple blocks away.

    Now that I’m more aware, my instincts from gang-free suburbia are to call 911 and report that I’ve heard an incident. But it occurs to me that that may be seriously stupid.

    I’d appreciate any advice you have about what to do about this, or whether there’s anything us new white residents can do to make police protection more equal. I know a lot of us could be organized to action.

    Also, thank you for your post. I think your words could seriously change people. You should get more circulation.

    Anyway, please advise.

  • Wonder Bread

    Great blog coverage of this horrific murder. Such a shame. I’m a recent white newcomer to Crown Heights and I too love this ‘hood! As an Obama voter and a big fan (and student) of hip-hop culture I felt I had learned a lot about what it means to truly love your ‘hood, whether it’s where you’re from or where you live. But what I don’t understand is why so many black residents of CH routinely litter and trash their own neighborhood. Not a day goes by that I don’t see an African-American gleefully throw their trash right onto the street, sidewalk, etc., even though there are garbage cans on nearly every street corner. If you love something so much, why would you fill it with garbage? I don’t understand. Is it because of the police? any insight would be appreciated.

  • Marie

    In 1966 when my eldest son was three, we were walking down Eastern Parkway headed for the library when I stopped in front of a huge apartment building. I was looking for a place but before I could even get halfway up the walkway, the doorman (in full doorman regalia…Im talking hat with braid and long coat with brass buttons) gestured to me that there was nothing for me available there.
    Ten years and two more sons later and we headed into the 80′s and white folk who seeing the writing on the wall scrambling to get outta BK…I was in the right place at the right time…and I got an apartment in the aformentioned building. Nice place; prewar with 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. Of course the doormans’ uniform regalia has suffered a bit for wear and his breath reeked of alcohol…but I was in there.

    Now, its 2010…my sons are grown with families of their own. We (along with others in the neighborhood) survived the 80′s…then the Brooklyn Museum got a nice face lift and suddenly white folk start coming back in droves (probably the children of the same ones that left 30 years prior)…and SOME of them looking at you like YOU got off at the wrong stop. Still, Im not at all mad at ANYBODY who has the good sense to appreciate just how special it is to live in Brooklyn.

    I loved my spot then and I love my spot now.

    The only thing that saddens me now is the lost of the likes of RONALD ALEXANDER ROBERT LEE GLOVER II. I grieve for his family, his friends and his community. I grieve because perhaps right around the corner was someone/something that was gonna turn his life around…something that would led him to a different kind of productivity. Perhaps we could have helped each other hold on the our precious spots in Brooklyn. RIP IN PEACE RONALD

  • http://www.hiphopknights.com CoolD

    lol Someone said your area seems like a police state. Escape while you can my brotha!

  • Kelly

    Great piece. i remember seeing the shrine as well. i don’t live in the neighborhood but used to visit quite regularly during the summer because it was my assigned reporting beat for my journalism class. i would like to speak with you more to follow up on a story i had begun writing during the summer but never finished. email me if interested in discussing, thanks.